you know,i have just looked at a friend's Facebook profile and i saw many pictures of her and 3 little kids. i wonder if it is her children, it would be funny though because she is just 22 years old this year,same age as me. what if it is her kids? they are so adorable though!
anyway,i have been thinking, a friend approached me today telling me her friend from high school is getting married soon and has invited her to her wedding. i personally have friends who got knocked up and got married because of the kid, i also have a really good friend who got married at the age of 20 on her own will and her husband's of course. but she did tell me that she is not really happy in her marriage life, her husband has been so busy to spend time with her, she hardly goes home to see her own family as well.
i wonder, what is the point of getting married at such a young age? my friend has told me that it was her dream to become a young mother but she hasn't been pregnant yet. but again, think logically,of course if you and your boyfriend both want kids at a young age and you can support the kid then fine i have nothing to say. but logically,you haven't even finish your studies, haven't build up a career(at least a stable one) and you're jumping into marriage that fast? if you got knocked up first then i have nothing to say as well,you probably marry out of love or just plain responsibility over the kid.
at least i've heard over here in Australia,especially among Christians, they get married at a young age because they want to have sex and it means you're not sinning against God if you are already married! i mean,what a reason! come on, are you that desperate for sex? are you that HORNY???! good God,get a grip on yourselves man!! and then what if after marriage,you get pregnant and have a kid,and later in your mid life you as parents start to argue and just happen to get a divorce,isn't that also a sin against God? in case you don't know,divorce is a sin you freaking idiot!!
oh wells,it's just funny how people chose to get married at a young age just for sex. anyways,not my part to say. i just find it really stupid that people can't even support themselves and they already want to jump into marriage. hmm....
anyway,i have been thinking, a friend approached me today telling me her friend from high school is getting married soon and has invited her to her wedding. i personally have friends who got knocked up and got married because of the kid, i also have a really good friend who got married at the age of 20 on her own will and her husband's of course. but she did tell me that she is not really happy in her marriage life, her husband has been so busy to spend time with her, she hardly goes home to see her own family as well.
i wonder, what is the point of getting married at such a young age? my friend has told me that it was her dream to become a young mother but she hasn't been pregnant yet. but again, think logically,of course if you and your boyfriend both want kids at a young age and you can support the kid then fine i have nothing to say. but logically,you haven't even finish your studies, haven't build up a career(at least a stable one) and you're jumping into marriage that fast? if you got knocked up first then i have nothing to say as well,you probably marry out of love or just plain responsibility over the kid.
at least i've heard over here in Australia,especially among Christians, they get married at a young age because they want to have sex and it means you're not sinning against God if you are already married! i mean,what a reason! come on, are you that desperate for sex? are you that HORNY???! good God,get a grip on yourselves man!! and then what if after marriage,you get pregnant and have a kid,and later in your mid life you as parents start to argue and just happen to get a divorce,isn't that also a sin against God? in case you don't know,divorce is a sin you freaking idiot!!
oh wells,it's just funny how people chose to get married at a young age just for sex. anyways,not my part to say. i just find it really stupid that people can't even support themselves and they already want to jump into marriage. hmm....
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