Spiritual or Physical Satisfaction?

You know how people always say that we have a soul / spirit and it resides in our body? Our body is just a temporary home for the soul until it dies, we never really die because our soul lives forever.

Well, I have been asked by my friends about why am I not worried about getting a boyfriend at all? Do i not feel pressure about the people around me? And funny thing is, I rarely worry about getting a boyfriend, it's not that I'm not attracted to guys but I just don't think about it too much. Am i weird?

And then I see my friends around me having relationship problems or changing guy after guy like as if they are changing their clothes. Then I think to myself "Wow, thank god I'm not the one experiencing all these ugly things/ pain/ feelings."

Been pondering over my friend's question for more than 2 months I think, and then it hit me while I was in the shower just now.

Note: Read only if you want to, not forcing.

Reason why I never been worried about not getting a boyfriend is because spiritually I am satisfied. I was thinking "if you keep changing guy after guy and sleeping with them, you're only satisfying your physical self. What about your soul? It needs food too! " and I thought to myself "i've heard many of my friends complain about every guy they have been with and they DO NOT sound satisfied by this guy at all ! In fact, they date because of covering up their wounds, replacing another guy, just for the company or money etc." They never even took time off to reflect and find themselves, to mourn the past relationship, to wake up.

The bible says "After the mourning has ended, joy will always come after that." which is SO TRUE !

So, by changing partners and sleeping with them and having them by your side 24/7, why do you still feel hollow? Like a part of you is missing. My answer would be "Because I have Jesus, He is the one feeding my soul and funny enough, I feel safe and secure thinking I have Him with me at all times!" Even better than having a boyfriend whom you only see once a week or end of the day and does not know what he is doing other than working. Knowing that Jesus listens to your every prayer, provides you with things you need - never short, and He will never forsake you + He loves you unconditionally.

So yeah, the answer finally came through to me and I thought I'd like to blog about it because some of my closest friends are non-believers and it's hard to share with them because they will never ever understand the satisfaction and privilege of knowing Jesus as their Lord and Saviour.

That is all.



~Friends are angels in disguised sent by God to take care of you~

~Friends are a blessing because I know that I am not alone in this cruel world and I have to thank God for friends~

~Never ever take friendship lightly because even when you are rich, you may buy friends but you can never buy happiness or the love that your real friends and family showed you~

~Never worship money because it is the root of all evil~

~Always think before you speak, speak words of encouragement and blessings into people's lives, NEVER EVER discourage anyone~

~Always show kindness and LOVE to people, you never know when you might need it one day too~