personal attack?

have you ever tried chatting/ sharing something with a friend and it turns into a personal attack?

like WTH right?

well, i was chatting with this guy and we were talking about movies, and i told him that people shouldn't post up personal opinions about a movie on facebook because it will affect the hype or change a person's opinion on the movie as well, given if the other party hasn't even watch the movie.

he turn the conversation into saying 'shouldn't post personal opinions on facebook? but i remember reading a few posts from you lately.' and he meant that i wrote personal opinions (none of which involves movies on my facebook) . like dude, i thought we were talking about movies? so i asked him that question regarding us talking about movies, and he just replied 'ok, you win'.

SERIOUSLY, WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM?

i thought you find me because you wanted to chat with me, i did not expect you to attack me. F, if you really wanna attack someone, please find another person because from this day onwards i will NEVER initiate conversations with you, not that i usually do, but i will only give you bloody close ended answers from now on.

F YOU STUPID BLOODY WEIRDO, NO WONDER GIRLS KEEP RUNNING AWAY FROM YOU!

when you told me a few girls scolded you for being so selfish, well, thats because you are! never met such a horrible self-centered bastard like you. no wonder you have no friends. UGH!

excuse my french!

5 minute chocolate cake

so i made a 5 min chocolate cake in a mug, took the recipe from nigella lawson.

it came out alright, but i think i need to work on it more. something i can reduce or add more of something.

it tasted good though. (:

still got space for improvement. hehe

Whenever I walked into a bookstore....

I always feel like i want to buy many story books to read but problem is, my room/house ain't got that much space to put all the books if i buy 'em.

Also, what do I do with the books once i've finished reading 'em?

I can't throw 'em away, I don't even feel like giving 'em away.

Sigh....

#firstworldproblem

resign

so i decided to resign from my job because it has taken a toll on me.

thanks to the store manager, i can no longer stand him. my 2nd boss has also decided to transfer branch end of this week. its saddening that everyone is deciding to leave 1 by 1. but it's also good to see the store fall apart under this current store manager's hands.

sick and tired of the management. i'm leaving for good, for my own sake, for my own happiness.

please pray for me to find another suitable job. i'm happy to work in retail, just happened to be under some shitty management this time around. i pray that i can look for a better company and one that i'm happy to work for.

thanks for the support and prayers. peace out~

true story

something true and wise that i read online and i totally agree with it ! so i would like to share it here to remind myself to love myself more.




~ as you grow older, you will realise that it is not important to have many friends but more important to have real friends beside you.


you will also realised that you will not take any bull shit at work because you value your own happiness more. why suffer silently at work when you can be honest and just leave to find something you will love doing. and by doing that, you will find true happiness in life.

the horror

i have been thinking to quit my job for a while now coz of the asshole store manager.

today my regional manager talked to me about confirming me, she was asking if i needed a transfer of branch, or switch brands because Cotton On has many sub-brands like Typo. I told her i needed a week to think about it because of commitments like travelling for almost 2 hours to reach my destination every day. it tires me out and i dislike it.

i duno how to tell her i'm planning to quit and i only have one week! gahhh~

Arctic Monkeys

so my part-timer tried influencing me to listen to indie music and tells me mainstream is shitty.

i agree that mainstream is shitty but i really like the beat. lol


anyways, he recommended me 2 songs from Arctic Monkeys and I end up liking it. =.=

1. Arctic Monkeys - Why'd you only call me when you're high
2. Arctic Monkeys - Do I wanna know?

tell me your opinions. happy listening!

girls, would you date.... ?

to all the gorgeous ladies,

would you date younger guys?

by young i mean more than 3 years younger?

i have friends who are dating/married to younger guys and wonder if i would accept it personally... would age matter?

my conclusion, age is just a number, provided if the guy can provide and is super good to me, that would be ideal.

not picky at all haha :P

concerts anyone?

i want to go to FT Island and Super Junior Show 5 in KL, any takers?

i need a kaki.


SIGH....

gotten lazy to blog but here's one..

sorry blog for abandoning you. you were always here for me when i needed to rant, and right now, here's one rant from me.

so i've graduated and entered the working world recently. couldn't find a job or should i say, never given the opportunity to try out new things because all companies want to hire people with 'experience'. nuff said. you get where i'm going with this...

so anyways, i took on a job at Cotton On in Pavilion KL, a retail brand from Australia where i worked at for 3 months casually back in Aussieland before my student visa expired and i had to leave.

at first, i hated the second-in-charge boss, he's a dick most of the time because he is too forward with his words and sometimes talk shit because of his stupid mouth but he's actually quite an understanding boss as well as a protective of staff kind of boss which i like, direct is good, means you get to change and improve as well. but not long ago in July, we gotten a new store manager named D. (I would say stands for Dick because he's worse than a dickhead, he's a bastard) excuse my french, i'm very pissed with him.

this new store manager started out good, like being nice to everyone, listens to our needs and wants and works OKAY in teamwork i guess ( i wouldn't say too good but average). recently he started to show his true colours which makes him a total bastard/jerk/fucktard... whatever names you and I could think of, he is one.

he only thinks for himself and only himself. he is most important compare to everyone else, even part-timers when they are the ones doing a good job in maintaining the tidyness of the store. my 2nd-in-charge could not stand him even in the first week of him being in the store. they fought in the Reports group chat in Whatsapp where my Regional manager and 6 other stores are also in the chatroom. i was so shocked, and soon enough, my 2nd-in-charge revealed to me that he has scolded D twice before the fight because of his selfish behaviour and also for his constant reporting of his staffs' mistakes and flaws to our regional mgr behind our backs before even giving us warnings or constructive criticisms. I HATE BACKSTABBERS!

when my part timers and also my 2nd-in-charge wanted to take leave because of family emergencies, D would not allow them to do so and thinks that those 'emergencies' can be put off because the 'job' is more important than family. well, to this day, NOBODY talks to D , not even a 'hello' or 'bye' , nobody acknowledges his existence in the store, everyone talks behind his back now, does not do works that needed to be done because we want to let him drown in workload.

just last thursday, D was scheduled to come in from 8am-5pm shift but his car had broke down or something like that and came in at 4.15pm. so automatically everyone expected him to stay til closing time 10.30pm but NO, he left at 8.15pm and only told me and my 2nd in charge around 7ish and he left quietly without us knowing he had already left the store. we were furious because we are on closing shift and even if he stayed til closing it would've been 6 hours only so whats his prob? best part is that he did not leave the store key for us so both of us didn't have the key to close the shop and we only realised this 20minutes before 10pm. I had to call my 3rd in charge to come and drop the key to us, when he found out D had left at 8pm he was furious too!

and when everyone knew what had happened, or what he did, 1 by 1 started playing up. taking MCs or emergency leaves on days that D is working so that he could struggle in store by himself. that includes my part-timers. but he deserves it, everyone is cursing him behind his back as well. isn't it sad to come in to work where nobody acknowledges your existence? well, he brought this on himself, the whole store is against him right now.


there goes my rant... sorry it's too long but i actually shortened all the stories and only told one in full length. i am depressed and upset at work and want to leave. i hope God grants me a job right now so i can quit this job ASAP. i can't work under people like him and especially when my Regional is on his side too. everyone is leaving and i need to leave too! *sad*



SIGH......